Friday, December 7, 2007
Nine months old!!!
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Happy Halloween!!!
Gotta love these little monkeys!!! 'Nighty-night, y'all...
Sunday, October 21, 2007
An Update!
Yes, it's been a while since our last post, but, believe it or not, raising triplets is a busy job! The Girls are doing well and will crawl any second. Mommy and Daddy are trying to baby-proof as fast as they can!
Delaney Update: Miss Tadpole LOVES to kick. She lays (lies?) on her stomach and kicks and kicks when she's happy (most of the time!). She likes green foods and hates anything hard (Cheerios, fruit and veggie puffs, etc.). She still has the most hair and the biggest head. Her biggest obstacle is getting people to call her Delaney, and not "Little Bobby!"
Mary Beth Update: Miss Butterfly is very verbal. She babbles constantly when she's awake, and says "Mamamama" when she's upset. Yesterday, we swear she said, "Daddy," but who knows! What's definite is that she's getting so big so fast. She's happiest when standing, and loves to pull Delaney's hair! Mary Beth loves solid foods, but hates drinking milk.
Samantha Update: Miss Sunshine has the cutest smile! She will probably crawl first: She gets on all fours with her belly off the ground, and rocks. Lord, help us when she figures out what to do next! She LOVES Cheerios and fruit and veggie puffs. She likes playing Peek-a-Boo and chewing on books. Samantha will almost certainly be a drummer: she bangs on everything. She's happiest when playing with her toy drum or beating on things with a wooden spoon!Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Milestones!
Other than that, our doctor's visit last week went very well. Samantha weighs 12 pounds 9 ounces, Delaney weighs 12 pounds 11 ounces, and Mary Beth "The Moose" weighs 14 pounds 7 ounces! Yes, we do feed Sam and Delaney! We are now eating solids three times a day and will soon taste yummy things like yogurt. As is always the case, the worst part of the visit was shots. We took Nana with us for additional comforting support. Very smart of us, I must say!
Mommy and Daddy went to the Dave Matthews Band concert last night. Aunt Jessica and Uncle Scott baby-sat and spent the night. What lifesavers we have for friends and family! We had a great time, and the Dixons survived!
We go tomorrow night to have the Girls' pictures made professionally for the first time. Everyone do a collective prayer that they'll turn their cute on and not spit up on their new, expensive, white dresses! We'll see... I'll try to remember to e-mail out the proof information once I have it.
Well, ta-ta for now! Mommy has to put real clothes on (duck pajamas don't count as real clothes!)...
Friday, September 7, 2007
We are SIX months old today!!!
The time really does fly! The Girls are half a year old today! They have changed so much. The hamster-like creatures we brought home from the hospital aren't here anymore! They have so much personality and really are SO different from each other (except Delaney and Sam who, right now, are acting exactly the same and are crying instead of napping in their cribs!).
Delaney is still our little love bug! She is usually the most even-tempered of the bunch, and laughs quickly. But, she can go from hot to cold in no time flat! She refuses to lay on a Boppy pillow after she eats anymore, and demands to be held and rocked. Oh, my diva child!
Mary Beth is such a big girl! She loves to stand up, and will do it for long periods of time if you balance her. I can't believe how strong she is! She is the most aware of attention. If you don't pay attention to her she cries and sounds just like a pterodactyl!
Samantha is our sunshine! She will almost always stop crying if you sing "You Are My Sunshine" to her. She loves food and has the eating thing down to a science! She has the cutest laugh, and likes to chew on her stuffed alligator, Clyde!Saturday, August 25, 2007
Updates!

Friday, July 27, 2007
We enjoy the convenience of eating solid food...
So far we've started with Mary Beth. As the biggest baby, she is the most physical and, therefore, has the most neck control. She gets to be the guinea pig! She's been getting rice cereal twice a day this week. She doesn't really like it and still has a lot of tongue thrusting going on , but we're getting there. We're going to start Sam this Sunday and Delaney the next Sunday, probably. Delaney is still so floppy!
Our friend Carrie recommends oatmeal instead of rice cereal. She's one of those moms: the kind I sometimes aspire to be. She tastes everything that goes into her babies (food, formula, medicine, etc.). She can tell me, firsthand, that rice cereal tastes "iron-y" and that oatmeal is way better. I'm just not feeling the whole tasting baby food thing. I wish I was that...empathetic? It just goes to show that it takes all different kinds of moms and kids to make the world go round! Not better, not worse, just different.
Pa, Carrie, and I are going to a yard sale tomorrow. I'm hoping to pick up high chairs (seems like we're gonna need them soon!), another Exersaucer, and maybe a Jumperoo. Our house keeps getting smaller and smaller as we add all this baby stuff, but we're in a constant search for things that will keep babies entertained and happy. If they also keep them relatively quiet and stationary, all the better!!! I'm just not sure who decided yard sales have to start at 7:00 in the morning. I feel like I have to get there early so I get the best stuff, but WOW! That means I have to leave here at 6:30. I don't even have to get up that early if I'm feeding babies, and tomorrow's my day off! Oh well, I can always take a nap later. Tomorrow night should be fun: Jessica and Scott are coming over for a Games and Ice Cream night! Bobby and I realized we used to play board games almost every night, but haven't played even a quick card game since The Girls were born. So, we're going to actually stay up past The Girls' bedtime and act like adults with lives!!! We can pretend, right?!
Friday, July 20, 2007
All worth it...
...it's all worthwhile. The Girls are getting cuter by the second. It's important for me to remember and to look at pictures like this from time to time. Especially now, when they're all supposed to be taking naps and they're all awake and two of them are crying!
We've planned our first big trip: all the Crowders are going to GG's in Virginia Beach for Thanksgiving! I can get my "Black Friday" shopping fix, and we can see some family and friends! I think GG has already started taking appointments for everyone to meet The Girls.
Before that, though, I've planned my first trip away from The Girls. Jessica and I are going to Myrtle Beach for the weekend in August. I think it will be awesome and can hardly wait. Yes, I'll miss my babies, but it will be nice to have some "Mommy Time," too!
That's about it for updates. We're in the throes of teething (none coming through yet, though!), and will start solids probably in the next few weeks. More later: Sam and Mary Beth are having a screaming competition!!!
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
WE HATE SHOTS!!!
Anyway, we all went to the doctor today for the Girls' four-month checkup. Everyone is doing well:
Delaney weighs 10 pounds 9 ounces and is 23.5 inches long. She is still the floppiest of the three and does not want to hold her head up yet. I keep telling her that the sooner she does, the sooner she can eat real food (Yay, peaches and squash!), but she doesn't care yet. Soon...
Mary Beth is our giant baby: She weighs 11 pounds 6 ounces and is 24 inches long! She is also now our best sleeper. We've stopped swaddling all the babies at night. As soon as you put Mary Beth down, she flips over onto her tummy. She sleeps for 4 and 5-hour stretches like that!
Samantha, who used to be the biggest baby, is now the smallest: She weighs 10 pounds 4 ounces and is 23 inches long. We're going to try her on another kind of formula with easier-to-digest proteins. Maybe that will help her eat more...
But, the doctor was pleased, and says we're doing a good job! Yay for validation!
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Greetings From the Land of the Rested!
The Girls are much more vocal now. Samantha, especially, loves to grunt and squeal and make any noise she can! Delaney loves when you imitate the noises she makes. She thinks it's so funny! I really think she's German or French, because most of her noises are very phlegmy-sounding! Mary Beth "talks" the least, but is coming along. She is definitely the most physical of the three. She can roll over both ways, but rarely will roll from front to back. She LOVES to be on her tummy.
We go for the four-month check-up next week. I bet they weigh 12 pounds! (Probably between 10 and 11, but still!) I dread the shots, but love taking The Girls to the doctor. It's reassuring to hear a medical professional tell us we're doing an okay job raising our angels!
Time to find Mommy some lunch before the 11:30 feeding...
Friday, June 29, 2007
Here goes nothing!
It's naptime right now, so it's quiet time for Mommy to blog, eat lunch, and watch the E! True Hollywood Story of Dirty Dancing! Now I really want to go to Lake Lure and stay at the hotel where it was filmed. Instead, I'll settle for Myrtle Beach for a weekend in August with Jessica. I can't wait! I know I'll miss The Girls (and Daddy, too!), but it will be nice to have a few days to remember who I am besides Mommy and Wifey. I've been criticized by another new mom as of late for going out one night a week and leaving The Girls. Luckily, I have a pretty thick skin and a cool head. I know me and know that those who judge have no idea what I do. I love my days with The Girls, but everyone needs a break eventually. I choose to have my breaks now instead of a breakdown later. I will still have an identity and active interests when The Girls don't need me 24/7. Personally, I feel like it's bad for children to be the center of their parents' universe. A friend once told me she heard a psychologist say you should bring children into your world and let them adapt to it. You shouldn't go into theirs and try to adapt. I agree, obviously. But, every mom is different. I have learned, through this triplet journey I'm taking, that, as long as you love your kids, nothing is really "wrong." You do what works for you and for your child. As much as I wanted and waited for motherhood, I didn't want to be defined as just a mother. Is that wrong? Maybe. But, it works for me!
As a side note, did you ever wonder who "They" are? I wonder all the time. My mommy friends are seemingly constantly saying, "They say you should spend 90 minutes a day playing one-on-one with your child. They say you should never let a child younger than 3 months old cry for more than 30 seconds. They say..." Who is "They?" "They" obviously don't have triplets!
I need a nap! I'm starting to get punchy! But, alas, it won't happen. I have to be awake to entertain another in-law tonight! Better straighten up the living room. (Although, this visitor won't notice. He's only coming to see the girls. Not me, not Daddy, not my dirty house. Maybe I'll watch "The Simple Life" and eat another brownie instead...)
Monday, June 25, 2007
Oops, I did it again!
Today has already been exciting: Mary Beth rolled over from her back to her front! She has now rolled over both ways. The other girls show little interest in it, but will soon, I'm sure!
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Amoxicillin is still pink!
The Girls are taking a nap in their cribs right now. I'm trying to get them used to napping there, rather than on the living room floor. I can do so much more if I know they're safe in their cribs: shower, nap, clean, blog! They don't like it and don't sleep as well, but we're trying. I'm listening on the baby monitor and trying not to go in there unless it sounds like someone's foot is being gnawed off!
When I took Mary Beth to the doctor on Friday we had the added bonus of finding out her weight! She was 9 pounds, 14 ounces! That's almost 10 pounds. Double-digit weights are exciting! I can't believe how fast they're growing and changing. Delaney has started imitating me when I stick my tongue out at her! She thinks it's hilarious! They're adorable! Every time I wish for them to be able to talk and tell me what's wrong or to outgrow spitting up, I try to stop myself and remember that time really does fly and I'll miss all these things sooner than I'd like to admit.
We took the Girls to the hospital Monday to have their hips ultrasounded (is that a word?!). They were checking to make sure, since they were so crowded in Mommy's tummy, that their hips were in their sockets and growing well. I'm happy to report that they are doing just fine! We never fail to attract attention everywhere we go, especially when we have the giant triple stroller. The best part of that is adding to my funny questions list, and this trip was no exception: A man asked us, as we were passing by, "Are they the same?" What do you think he meant by that? I tried to cover all my bases and replied, "They're triplets, all girls, not identical." I just kept walking, but Bobby and I giggled over that one for a while.
Well, there goes Sam! Something must be gnawing on her... :-)
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Goodness Gracious!
Monday, June 4, 2007
Daddy's New Schedule :-(
As a plus, I've hired one of my former students as a "Mother's Helper" two afternoons a week. She starts tomorrow and will be here for the end of the 12:30 feeding and the beginning of the 4:30. I can get some cleaning done, take a shower or a nap, or whatever. I think it's going to be a great sanity-saver!
Oh no! I completely forgot: time for Sam's juice! More later! :-)
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
A Stupid Question I Forgot and Christmas in May
"So, did you know you were having triplets?" Seriously? In this day and age are there really people who are surprised with multiples? Do they push one baby out and feel like there might be something left? Do they go in for a C-Section and the doctor says, "Huh. Will you looky there?" I doubt it. Even the free clinic does at least one ultrasound, right?! Note to the masses: don't go to a doctor who can't count how many babies you're having!
Anyway, back to the crazy week. I honestly couldn't tell you what we did on Friday, but the weekend was full of visitors. On Saturday, Auntie Jessica and her mother and mother-in-law came to visit. On Sunday, we took the girls for their first road trip. We went to Wilmington to visit all our family down there. We used Great Granny's house as our home base, and it was crazy! Twenty-six people came to ogle, I mean visit. There was much gnashing of teeth when small children weren't allowed to feed the babies and hold them constantly, but, overall, it went pretty smoothly. The girls were very well-behaved considering they were passed around like gravy at Thanksgiving. I did a lot of smiling and nodding and even more biting of my tongue. Family means well, but can be very overwhelming! On Monday, we stayed home and recovered!
Yesterday was another Tuesday. Jessica and I went out as usual, but I shared the free time with Daddy. When we came back, he got to go out with Scott for a little while. We all had fun, and Jessica got to practice her baby-sitting skills in preparation for this Saturday...
Well, another feeding is over! I get to go back to bed until 8:00 now until it all starts again!
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Family Day and Juice!
Wednesday night is also bath night. The Girls are actually seeming to like it. At least they don't scream like they used to! They are learning to splash and are starting to smile in the tub when we pour water over their heads. It's so cute! They aren't great at holding their heads up yet, so it's definitely still a two-man job. When they're a little more stable, I'll take pictures.
Today has been pretty quiet. Mary Beth will only sleep in her swing or if I'm holding her. Delaney is currently asleep in her crib (after screaming for 10 minutes!), and Sam is asleep in her car seat. Daddy should be home in the next hour, and we start feeding babies again! Yay! :-)
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Another Tuesday in Paradise...
Anyway, tomorrow is family day. Daddy is off work, and we're going to spend some quality time together with the Girls. Nana and Pa are coming over, so Mommy and Daddy are going out to dinner! Two nights out in a row?! I won't know how to act!
Well, off to fold laundry and check the weather so I can plan outfits for tomorrow and straighten up downstairs and get ready for the 12:30 feeding and....
Monday, May 21, 2007
Answers to COMMON Questions...
- Are they identical? This seems to be a pretty dumb question to me! If you look at them at all closely, you can see they don't look anything alike! But, I spend lots more time with them than the random stranger on the street, so, like a good Southern girl, I just smile and nod and say, "No, Ma'am, they're not." Related to this is, "How do you tell them apart?" Rather than tell people I just LOOK at them(!), I just point out the differences (hair, facial features, size, etc.)!
- Do they sleep through the night? What, exactly, does this mean, anyway?! The Girls are still pretty small at this point, so they eat every four hours, even if we have to wake them up to do it. Yes, the doctor told us to do that. Yes, it's hard and means we don't get much sleep. Yes, (I keep reminding myself) it's temporary. When they get a little bigger, we can let them go longer without eating.
- Do they sleep in the same crib? They did in the hospital, and for about 3 nights once they were all home. But, they kept wiggling into each other and beating on each other, so we quickly separated them. They said they had enough together time in the womb anyway!
- How do you do it? Do what?! Take care of the babies I prayed for for years?! It's all I want to do! I think it helps that these are our only children, so I don't have to feel like I'm neglecting anyone by taking care of the triplets. Also, we have no frame of reference of what it's like to raise one child at a time. So, as far as we're concerned, this is how parenting is! I am ridiculously organized and scheduled. I don't really have a choice now, but I've really always been that way! Bobby is the most wonderful husband and father on the planet! It helps that he is so involved. He even makes me go out one night a week so I don't get too burned out!
- What do you do if they all three cry at once? It happens! While I was pregnant, I kept waiting for extra arms to grow (Along with an extra breast! Didn't happen, so the babies are formula-fed!), but they never did. I had to quickly learn to assess the babies' cries and determine why they were crying. I'm not an expert, but I can tell who is crying from other parts in the house and can usually distinguish a dirty diaper cry from a hungry cry and a sleepy cry. Whoever is in the most real need gets attention first! I can hold two babies at once, but not three. Swings are the greatest invention EVER!
- How will you afford three _________ at one time (fill in blank with college tuitions, cars, weddings, etc.)? HELLO! Can I get through having to buy formula and diapers first?! If you're really that worried about it, we're happily accepting donations to said funds! :-)
They are the greatest joys EVER! I really hope the Lord doesn't give triplets to shy people... I don't think they could handle all the attention! Luckily, I kinda like it. ;-)
Meet the Girls!

Delaney (AKA - DelaneyPie, Snoopy, and Little Bobby): The oldest and often the quietest. She loves to cuddle and listen to music and the vacuum cleaner. She was the first to give Mommy a real smile. Delaney is still the smallest of the Girls and has the most hair. She is cooing a lot these days, especially at night.
Mary Beth (AKA - Miss Butterfly, Ms. Ballistic, and Lizard Girl): Classic middle child! She craves attention and lets you know when she doesn't get it! Her hair is starting to turn red, and it definitely suits her. Mary Beth is the only one, to date, to roll over. She's done it twice! She's still the longest baby, but no longer the heaviest.
Samantha (AKA - Dr. Phil, Count Blah, and Baby Bird): Our big girl! At the last doctor's visit, Sam was the heaviest, and has been for quite a while. But, she is eating less these days, so it may not last. She has acid reflux and takes Prevacid every day. It's helping, and we hope she's back to her old self soon. Samantha was born with lots of blonde fuzz, but it all fell out. She is starting to get some hair, and it's coming in brown. She loves to smile and laugh in her sleep.
Our first blog!
This is just a forum to keep everyone updated on the triplets. I'll endeavor to post when I get a chance. I don't promise to do it every day, but will do the best I can!
Anyway, we just finished up a REALLY busy week. It started with Mother's Day (my very FIRST!). Daddy, Pa, the Girls, and I went to brunch at the Art Museum. It was delicious, and we were the hit of the party! Lots of random people coming by to ask questions and even take pictures. We had a great time. Thursday was Mommy and Daddy's 10th anniversary. Nana and Grandaddy watched the Girls while we went to Fearrington House for dinner. YUM! Saturday we all went to Family Day at Daddy's work. Again, we were quite the spectacle. I was asked what had to be the dumbest question ever: Looking at our GIANT triple stroller, a girl asked, "Are they twins?" Seriously!
This week looks to be quieter; well, as quiet as life with triplets ever is! Probably lots of crying, spitting up, and tummy time. We'll see! Today my big accomplishment is that I mailed our birth announcements. Yay! One less thing to worry about...
Well, I better sign off so we can feed Mommy before we feed babies!